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EFT Empowerment Coaching


Using EFT or “Tapping”, my intention is to help my coaching clients clear emotional, physical and energetic blocks. Wherever you feel blocked or held back from reaching your potential—that’s where we will tap.  We will focus on these core issues making it possible to free whatever limiting beliefs, negative self-talk or stressful life experiences that may be dimming your expression of life. Today is a great day to move forward in your life.

Blair-Wiles-Coach

Who I am


I am a Master EFT Practitioner and Coach, specializing in helping clients reclaim their personal power which may be—or at least may feel, buried under years of stressful life experiences, low self-esteem and negative self-talk. While I do not provide psychotherapy services in my coaching practice, I bring with me 23 years of experience as a licensed psychotherapist and this background enhances my ability to provide first class coaching services to my clients.

What I Do


My coaching services are designed to help people move forward in their lives. When we feel held back in any area of our lives—health, career, relationships, we are often cut off from with the very power and creativity that makes life fun and satisfying.

Testimonials

While I can’t guarantee any specific results and the following testimonials do not constitute a warranty or predication regarding the outcome of an individual using my coaching services for any particular issue or problem, my clients report having positive experiences. Here is what they had to say:

Prior to, and even during, my first session with Blair I was a flat out non-believer. I agreed to meet with her only after much encouragement from a counselor I was seeing who felt certain I would benefit from learning to tap. At my first session, Blair explained the concept of how tapping worked and I reluctantly gave it a try. That was many years ago and I couldn’t be more grateful for the experience and the amazing result(s) I have gotten from tapping on a variety of issues. Despite a number of sessions with Blair over the years, it never ceased to amaze me how she could take my own words and make them even more fitting for what I happened to be there to tap on! My life has changed for the better having worked with Blair. She truly has a gift to offer.

Anne Dolan Retired firefighter/medic

“Working with Blair has given me the confidence to have an edge over my competitors. All professional athletes these days have access to great coaches, train smart, have the talent, eat well, and so on…. with Blair I tapped into so many hidden restrictions within myself and worked on my mental game which I see as a key element of my success. Each session with Blair helps me to come a step closer in reaching and using my full potential. Blair made me realized that the mind is one of the most important aspects of my performance and that I was mostly unaware of all those little restrictions which have been lingering in me for years.”

Ben SonntagProfessional Mountain Bike & Cyclocross Racer

I had been to see Blair many years ago for “regular” therapy and had loved working with her, so when I came up against a pattern I saw and wanted to change in my relationship with my boyfriend, I gave her a call. She suggested I try EFT. I had heard of this “tapping” technique, but I was skeptical and wanted the “regular” stuff. She asked me to try it, and if I hated it we’d go back. So, I did.

Well, Im a big believer in taking time, being patient watching a process. In the work I do I have seen how real change often happens slowly over time. My work with Blair was short, 6 sessions, all EFT. Blair’s ability to track and contact just the right moment is astounding and EFT is direct, clear, and swift. With her skills Blair helped me uncover and transform a pattern and belief that held me beck from truly being in deep relationship.

My (now) husband and I are truly grateful for this work!

Jules HarrisCertified Advanced Rolfer.

Before my work with Blair, I found myself feeling out of control and begging to find happiness. I felt empty, undeserving, and was clinging to situations and people that did not serve me. Since our work together, I have found myself more grounded, confident, and patient at work, curious and fearless on the slopes and trails, and innately requiring more from the people with whom I chose to share my life. There is a level of trust and self-worth that I could had never found without EFT treatment and working with Blair. She is kind, masterful, and doesn’t waste time getting to the issue and attacking it directly. I am grateful to have found clarity and happiness, which has made me a better professional, friend, partner, and person.

JJ

Instead of helping you, “accept” or “come to terms” with pain or trauma you have experienced in your life. EFT breaks through the chains that hold you in a place of pain, or past trauma. You are released, or freed to live the life you were always meant to live.

Mindy Lancaster

“Being a professional endurance mountain bike racer I’m constantly challenged both mentally and physically. Blair’s use of EFT, as a tool in her coaching practice, literally helped me tap into my “untapped” potential both on and off the bike. After sessions with Blair and in my own tapping I feel clearer, more grounded, and more connected to myself and the bike. I would recommend this form of mental training to anyone looking for that extra edge.”

Nick GouldProfessional Endurance Mountain Bike Racer

Because I am a scientist, I usually approach new things (like EFT) with a lot of preliminary research. However, with EFT I decided I did not want to bias my opinion about it one way or another so that I could approach it with a completely open mind. Because I had occasionally seen professional athletes “tapping” on the sideline, I figured there must be something to it. I am not well versed in methods typically used in psychotherapy so I can’t compare EFT with other types of therapy commonly used. For me, EFT is an intense experience that, with Blair’s guidance, seems to get at the heart of a matter in minutes, or most often, seconds. It has relieved me of long held grief and guilt, and peeled away layers of heaviness I didn’t even know I had. Consequently, I have been able to move forward with a lighter, more positive and constructive attitude. I would recommend this method, and Blair, to anyone who is willing to step outside the box and who wants resolution to deep seated issues.

MJMPh.D.

When I first started working with Blair I knew little about EFT. I knew that Blair had an excellent reputation as a clinician who incorporated a unique type of energy work into her practice, which was what I was looking for. My experience working with EFT with Blair was profound. I didn’t realize how easy it could be to release old emotional blocks and truly be in the world in a different mental, emotional and energetic way. I started to understand that issues of depression and anxiety are in part energetic blocks in our systems, and with the help of EFT and a skilled clinician these blocks can be released so that you are functioning at your full potential, in your power. The clinician pays a vital part in the success of this process, and I would not do EFT with anyone other than Blair. She has a genuine gift, I feel very lucky to have found her and I know her other clients feel the same.

Jessica ReedLCSW

“As a professional athlete I go to great measures to make sure I am at the top of my game and doing everything I can to make sure I am successful. I try to perfect everything in my ability: eating right, training hard, recovering including regular massage, stretching and core, 8 – 9 hours of sleep a night, and on and on. I felt that I was missing one thing. The question came up again and again, how do I mentally prepare to be the best that I can be? I believe the mental part of sport is just as important as the physical. Working with Blair Wiles I have been able to refine my mental edge and “tap” into the mental aspect of my sport. Having Blair as my coach, we have overcome challenges such as crashing and worked through being sick with a simple head cold before a very important competition. I absolutely without a doubt believe that through EFT and Blair’s coaching that I have reached a new level in cycling and in life.”

Carmen SmallProfessional Road Cyclist

My fear of going over the edge of a steep and challenging slope was palpable, and, I thought, insurmountable. I had one session with Blair. The next day I went to the slopes to ski and was truly incredulous…I went right over the edge onto a Black Diamond run, without pausing even to find a first turn! Had I not experienced this myself I would never have believed the changes that came in my skiing. And the changes were immediate and lasting. I now ski fearlessly. I say it now and can hardly believe it myself…the cure was so simple that it defies all logic, yet it works.”

EGD

I have done tapping on my own and with Blair for several years now. I have used tapping to rid myself of headaches, reduce stress, and help myself fall back asleep when I wake in the wee hours, but working with Blair helps me go deeper and “tap into” more aspects of an issue than I can see on my own. I am often surprised by what comes up. I call Blair to help with the deeper, older issues that we all deal with at times. Blair is a trained therapist who uses tapping, which I consider the best of both worlds. Her training, professional knowledge, insight, understanding and caring have been invaluable in helping me with various things. I always leave her office feeling better than when I went in. Overall, I have more compassion for myself, more understanding of what I am dealing with, and feel more at peace. With Blair’s help tapping, I have the tools that help me meet my goals.

TJ

I am living with a chronic form of cancer. Working with Blair and EFT helped me overcome the trauma of treatments and the fears of relapse. I am also a survivor of abuse from my former husband and although I had previous therapy, there were still lingering resentments and trauma. Tapping helped release these traumas and has allowed me to move forward with joy in my life. After learning these tapping tools with Blair, I can use them at home now when something comes up. I highly recommend Blair!

Terri

“Imagine having a fear or belief that you can’t think your way out of. Then imagine someone gently lifting it off your shoulders. That is what seeing Blair has been for me. Her insight and compassion as well as her skilled use of EFT has made it possible for me to overcome barriers, personal and professional. I always leave a session feeling grounded and clear and the best part is that it never feels hard or strenuous. I am so grateful for our time together.”

Mary Gilden

It is my pleasure to share my testimonial with everyone regarding thee professionalism of Blair Wiles, as well as the benefits of EFT.

I was introduced to EFT 4 years ago when I fell into a deep grief stricken depression. I visited several therapists with no improvement. Went to several medical MDs that only wanted to subscribe antidepressants, of which I am not a fan. I felt hopeless and at a dead end.
It was through a friend that I was recommended to Blair for EFT and counseling. I had heard of this technique and was at loose ends to try anything, I felt desperate.

Blair’s ability to lead me through the techniques of tapping was profound. Each session allowed me to peel back layers of years of unhappiness and a lack luster life, while understanding the origin of the layers, and finding forgiveness for myself, family and friends. EFT helped me to emotionally take charge of my life and take back what was my god given right to joy and happiness. It was very clear that this pain had resided in my body for years, and I was able to release it with a certain amount of clarity and personal intuitive knowledge. I found myself taking charge of my life and putting into action many dreams and ambitions I had given up on, or could no longer even imagine.

I am an artist. My creative endeavors excelled and I found personal satisfaction and praise from those around me. Everyone including myself saw a huge difference in me. I was truly out of depression and in a place of self-value and new strength. I can not tell or share my experience enough with others as it changed, perhaps even saved my life! I am very grateful for this experience and recommend it to everyone.

I still use the tools I learned to assist myself when I’m having a down time. It keeps me going.
Thank you Blair and the knowledge of EFT !

SC

While I can’t guarantee any specific results and the following testimonials do not constitute a warranty or predication regarding the outcome of an individual using my coaching services for any particular issue or problem, my clients report having positive experiences. Here is what they had to say:

Prior to, and even during, my first session with Blair I was a flat out non-believer. I agreed to meet with her only after much encouragement from a counselor I was seeing who felt certain I would benefit from learning to tap. At my first session, Blair explained the concept of how tapping worked and I reluctantly gave it a try. That was many years ago and I couldn’t be more grateful for the experience and the amazing result(s) I have gotten from tapping on a variety of issues. Despite a number of sessions with Blair over the years, it never ceased to amaze me how she could take my own words and make them even more fitting for what I happened to be there to tap on! My life has changed for the better having worked with Blair. She truly has a gift to offer.

Anne Dolan Retired firefighter/medic

“Working with Blair has given me the confidence to have an edge over my competitors. All professional athletes these days have access to great coaches, train smart, have the talent, eat well, and so on…. with Blair I tapped into so many hidden restrictions within myself and worked on my mental game which I see as a key element of my success. Each session with Blair helps me to come a step closer in reaching and using my full potential. Blair made me realized that the mind is one of the most important aspects of my performance and that I was mostly unaware of all those little restrictions which have been lingering in me for years.”

Ben SonntagProfessional Mountain Bike & Cyclocross Racer

I had been to see Blair many years ago for “regular” therapy and had loved working with her, so when I came up against a pattern I saw and wanted to change in my relationship with my boyfriend, I gave her a call. She suggested I try EFT. I had heard of this “tapping” technique, but I was skeptical and wanted the “regular” stuff. She asked me to try it, and if I hated it we’d go back. So, I did.

Well, Im a big believer in taking time, being patient watching a process. In the work I do I have seen how real change often happens slowly over time. My work with Blair was short, 6 sessions, all EFT. Blair’s ability to track and contact just the right moment is astounding and EFT is direct, clear, and swift. With her skills Blair helped me uncover and transform a pattern and belief that held me beck from truly being in deep relationship.

My (now) husband and I are truly grateful for this work!

Jules HarrisCertified Advanced Rolfer.

Before my work with Blair, I found myself feeling out of control and begging to find happiness. I felt empty, undeserving, and was clinging to situations and people that did not serve me. Since our work together, I have found myself more grounded, confident, and patient at work, curious and fearless on the slopes and trails, and innately requiring more from the people with whom I chose to share my life. There is a level of trust and self-worth that I could had never found without EFT treatment and working with Blair. She is kind, masterful, and doesn’t waste time getting to the issue and attacking it directly. I am grateful to have found clarity and happiness, which has made me a better professional, friend, partner, and person.

JJ

Instead of helping you, “accept” or “come to terms” with pain or trauma you have experienced in your life. EFT breaks through the chains that hold you in a place of pain, or past trauma. You are released, or freed to live the life you were always meant to live.

Mindy Lancaster

“Being a professional endurance mountain bike racer I’m constantly challenged both mentally and physically. Blair’s use of EFT, as a tool in her coaching practice, literally helped me tap into my “untapped” potential both on and off the bike. After sessions with Blair and in my own tapping I feel clearer, more grounded, and more connected to myself and the bike. I would recommend this form of mental training to anyone looking for that extra edge.”

Nick GouldProfessional Endurance Mountain Bike Racer

Because I am a scientist, I usually approach new things (like EFT) with a lot of preliminary research. However, with EFT I decided I did not want to bias my opinion about it one way or another so that I could approach it with a completely open mind. Because I had occasionally seen professional athletes “tapping” on the sideline, I figured there must be something to it. I am not well versed in methods typically used in psychotherapy so I can’t compare EFT with other types of therapy commonly used. For me, EFT is an intense experience that, with Blair’s guidance, seems to get at the heart of a matter in minutes, or most often, seconds. It has relieved me of long held grief and guilt, and peeled away layers of heaviness I didn’t even know I had. Consequently, I have been able to move forward with a lighter, more positive and constructive attitude. I would recommend this method, and Blair, to anyone who is willing to step outside the box and who wants resolution to deep seated issues.

MJMPh.D.

When I first started working with Blair I knew little about EFT. I knew that Blair had an excellent reputation as a clinician who incorporated a unique type of energy work into her practice, which was what I was looking for. My experience working with EFT with Blair was profound. I didn’t realize how easy it could be to release old emotional blocks and truly be in the world in a different mental, emotional and energetic way. I started to understand that issues of depression and anxiety are in part energetic blocks in our systems, and with the help of EFT and a skilled clinician these blocks can be released so that you are functioning at your full potential, in your power. The clinician pays a vital part in the success of this process, and I would not do EFT with anyone other than Blair. She has a genuine gift, I feel very lucky to have found her and I know her other clients feel the same.

Jessica ReedLCSW

“As a professional athlete I go to great measures to make sure I am at the top of my game and doing everything I can to make sure I am successful. I try to perfect everything in my ability: eating right, training hard, recovering including regular massage, stretching and core, 8 – 9 hours of sleep a night, and on and on. I felt that I was missing one thing. The question came up again and again, how do I mentally prepare to be the best that I can be? I believe the mental part of sport is just as important as the physical. Working with Blair Wiles I have been able to refine my mental edge and “tap” into the mental aspect of my sport. Having Blair as my coach, we have overcome challenges such as crashing and worked through being sick with a simple head cold before a very important competition. I absolutely without a doubt believe that through EFT and Blair’s coaching that I have reached a new level in cycling and in life.”

Carmen SmallProfessional Road Cyclist

My fear of going over the edge of a steep and challenging slope was palpable, and, I thought, insurmountable. I had one session with Blair. The next day I went to the slopes to ski and was truly incredulous…I went right over the edge onto a Black Diamond run, without pausing even to find a first turn! Had I not experienced this myself I would never have believed the changes that came in my skiing. And the changes were immediate and lasting. I now ski fearlessly. I say it now and can hardly believe it myself…the cure was so simple that it defies all logic, yet it works.”

EGD

I have done tapping on my own and with Blair for several years now. I have used tapping to rid myself of headaches, reduce stress, and help myself fall back asleep when I wake in the wee hours, but working with Blair helps me go deeper and “tap into” more aspects of an issue than I can see on my own. I am often surprised by what comes up. I call Blair to help with the deeper, older issues that we all deal with at times. Blair is a trained therapist who uses tapping, which I consider the best of both worlds. Her training, professional knowledge, insight, understanding and caring have been invaluable in helping me with various things. I always leave her office feeling better than when I went in. Overall, I have more compassion for myself, more understanding of what I am dealing with, and feel more at peace. With Blair’s help tapping, I have the tools that help me meet my goals.

TJ

I am living with a chronic form of cancer. Working with Blair and EFT helped me overcome the trauma of treatments and the fears of relapse. I am also a survivor of abuse from my former husband and although I had previous therapy, there were still lingering resentments and trauma. Tapping helped release these traumas and has allowed me to move forward with joy in my life. After learning these tapping tools with Blair, I can use them at home now when something comes up. I highly recommend Blair!

Terri

“Imagine having a fear or belief that you can’t think your way out of. Then imagine someone gently lifting it off your shoulders. That is what seeing Blair has been for me. Her insight and compassion as well as her skilled use of EFT has made it possible for me to overcome barriers, personal and professional. I always leave a session feeling grounded and clear and the best part is that it never feels hard or strenuous. I am so grateful for our time together.”

Mary Gilden

It is my pleasure to share my testimonial with everyone regarding thee professionalism of Blair Wiles, as well as the benefits of EFT.

I was introduced to EFT 4 years ago when I fell into a deep grief stricken depression. I visited several therapists with no improvement. Went to several medical MDs that only wanted to subscribe antidepressants, of which I am not a fan. I felt hopeless and at a dead end.
It was through a friend that I was recommended to Blair for EFT and counseling. I had heard of this technique and was at loose ends to try anything, I felt desperate.

Blair’s ability to lead me through the techniques of tapping was profound. Each session allowed me to peel back layers of years of unhappiness and a lack luster life, while understanding the origin of the layers, and finding forgiveness for myself, family and friends. EFT helped me to emotionally take charge of my life and take back what was my god given right to joy and happiness. It was very clear that this pain had resided in my body for years, and I was able to release it with a certain amount of clarity and personal intuitive knowledge. I found myself taking charge of my life and putting into action many dreams and ambitions I had given up on, or could no longer even imagine.

I am an artist. My creative endeavors excelled and I found personal satisfaction and praise from those around me. Everyone including myself saw a huge difference in me. I was truly out of depression and in a place of self-value and new strength. I can not tell or share my experience enough with others as it changed, perhaps even saved my life! I am very grateful for this experience and recommend it to everyone.

I still use the tools I learned to assist myself when I’m having a down time. It keeps me going.
Thank you Blair and the knowledge of EFT !

SC

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